No matter how frustrated it gets, or how you just want the worst to happen to the other party, you need to be able to manage yourself. Self-control is one of the things that differentiates us humans from animals. Generally, people are good and they mean no harm. However, admittedly sometimes they do tend to get the better of us. That is where we need to control ourselves, find whatever it is inside of us that can steady the emotional tsunami that just wants to be let out, and do our best to treat others well. Yes, even when they don’t deserve it. Because what you put out to the world will come back at you. For example, you might feel very satisfied letting it all out at that heat of the moment, but what it also does is reflect on you as a person and how you react to such situations.