Just because someone lives under the same roof as you, does not meant that the two of you will automatically have a great relationship. Similarly, do not think that it is a given that everyone in the same team has to have the same level of team spirit as all the members in it. If we can respect that we are each our own individual self and that the term ‘common sense’ is not so common after all, we might become more understanding and accepting of the different unique traits surrounding us. Relationships can never be demanded. Loyalty, perhaps, pending circumstances. But a good honest relationship void of any pretence and ill intent, can never be demanded but needs to be cultivated instead. So if you are willing to invest the time, energy and effort, you will likely have a great relationship with pretty much whomever you want.