There will be times in your life where things will not go your way, where you feel like you are being punished for something and that life cannot get any harder than that particular instance. When that happens, make sure you take a moment and breathe. Take in a deep breath or two. Close your eyes and focus only on inhaling and exhaling it. Do not concern yourself with the craziness and hardship that is engulfing you and just focus on your breathing. You have now two choices. You can choose to continue drowning yourself in pity and sorrow or you can take the difficult road and that is to believe, I mean really believe, that there is a wisdom behind everything that happens. You cannot see it yet, but you believe that there is. And that when the time is right, you will see it and you will realise that it had to happen that way. You might feel all alone going through this hardship. But know that there are many others who are going through their own individual struggles also in silence. Become strong and keep the faith alive.