The more you live life, the more you will realise that the thought of having only two opposing ideas, i.e. black or white, does not usually work in reality. Reality is complex, and there needs to be more options than just the two opposite ends of the spectrum. This concept that has somehow govern many minds is not allowing the required space needed to explore the possibilities of finding a common ground that can enable a respectful and worthwhile debate, or even conversation for that matter. Do not get trap in the prison of only two options. Allow yourself to wonder between both sides. You never know what you might just discover. It could perhaps change your perspectives on things, perhaps loosen them a little or it could very well solidify your positions. All good things.