Do not let someone else tell you differently. No one knows who they are. We are all blank canvases. All that talk about ‘finding yourself’ feels good and self-affirming. But what you really need to do on that front is to decide and create who you want to become. That is the way you ‘find yourself’. We did not come to this earth with a product description and that in itself is a gift. No matter your circumstances, you have the power to decide what and how your life turns out. Even in this very moment, you can decide to do something that will change your life and move you closer to a place that you would like to be. So stop wasting your life away and make the necessary decisions.