Whatever life that you are leading right now, in order to do something about it, to change course, the easiest step forward that you can take is to learn. Learn how to do so, what is required to lead the life that you want to live. You can get those resources easily either through the web or offline (libraries, successful people, etc.) but yes, you need to put in some effort to do that. If you wonder why is there not an easier way to learn, think of solutions to that. Audiobook is a great invention – allows one to consume knowledge on the go while being able to do other things at the same time, like working out. If you feel that you are ready to change your life for the better, then get ready to start learning, probably after a very long hiatus.