It is very tempting to succumb to the pitfalls that life sometimes present. Or as I call it, the unwanted gifts that keep on giving. Those moments are the true tests of who you are as an individual. You could let it be known that you will not take crap and fight or you could play the victim or pity card and enjoy that while it lasts, which is not very long. If you decide that you are going to turn your bad situation to your advantage, you essentially gift yourself another chance at life. And as the captain of your own ship, no one else can stop you because you are in control. So turn it around. Find solutions to your situation. Seek help. Be optimistic. Have faith. You got this.