One of these days, you have to admit to yourself that you are the one that is holding yourself back. That you have played small, gave up and not pushed yourself enough. Other people can only do so much for you. In the end, it is up to you to decide if you are going to turn up the heat and get really uncomfortable. To be someone that you aspire to be, who is in a different league, you need to either do things differently or perhaps with more intensity than what you are used to. Only then, will it ever become a reality.