This might sound a little out there to some but bear with me – everything that is occurring in your life, is happening for you. They do not occur to make your life miserable or sad. And they are most likely not there for mindless amusement. It does not matter what your religious beliefs are, this is a mindset. It is a powerful view of thinking that enables you to lift yourself up at any given situations, especially those that seem the hardest. When you view life as happening for you, you begin to appreciate more, and are more willing to understand than to hastily pass judgments. In your mind, there is always a tiny speck of gold even in the darkest of situations. And that is not some pretty talk. That is actual power which is the result of regularly conditioning your mind to be willing to look for the positives in every situations. To many, it will be very hard at first, and will only get easier after countless of struggles. But once you get the hang of it, you’ll find that it is now hard to be in a negative state for too long. And I’m sure I’m not alone when I say that’s a good ‘problem’ to have.