To think that we will always be in control and have things our way does not really help. What that only does is lead you to frustration and a whole lot of disappointments. So if you still live in your fantasy world, then you need to hear an important fact of life. Things will not always go your way so grow up. The sooner you realise that you might not get everything you want because sometimes you just don’t, the better. What is more important, is what you do after. Yes, you might have a low morale after facing such disappointments but here is the chance for you to write how your story develops. You can continue to sink in your temporary ‘defeat’ or bounce back from it. The power is in your hands. And part of growing up is to be able to do the latter.