Having opportunities and events turn up unexpectedly is a gift. Randomness is a gift. Not being able to predict all the great things that will come your way is a gift. Therefore do not be uptight about not being able to control all the events in your life. You are not the Creator. So cut yourself some slack. What you can only do is your best. And by doing so, it could then help to create more magical randomness in your life. So start counting your blessings, expected and also the unexpected ones. Especially the latter. As they are true indeed true gifts. Think about it.