If you do not like where you are right now in your life, the first thing that you can do is to change your narrative. The words that you use to identify situations that you are facing matters a great deal. You become what you say you are. Therefore in order to get out of a pitiful state, no longer be pitiful. Instead, use words that lift you up. Make you be brave. Brave enough to face the situations that have appeared in front of you. Because the reality is, what you say to yourself have weight. So use it to your advantage. Win.