It is important to remember that what we say to ourselves matter. Probably more than most would care to understand. A lot of people tend to disregard themselves quickly when it comes to them achieving something ‘big’, and that sort of thinking is what fuels the inability to achieve their dreams. That being said, making a 180-turn is perhaps not something that most would be comfortable doing. So as start, make a conscious effort to include the word ‘yet’ at the end of those ‘self-disregarding’ statements that many often make on a daily basis. Once that is a success, we can then move on to other ways on making the all too important shift.